As butches we have our own spectrum of "queerness". We are gender-queers; in butch/femme relationships, in butch/butch relationships or no relationships; butches - as a gender option; butches comfortable being butches; butches comfortable being lesbian; butches comfortable being women, butches being comfortable being men.
The Cushy Butch
Get your style on. Well dressed is the way to go homie. I wear Timbos and mostly sneakers and the ocassional dress shoe. Sometimes, they match even down to my boxers. Ha. Check out: http://www.complexmagazine.com/