As butches we have our own spectrum of "queerness". We are gender-queers; in butch/femme relationships, in butch/butch relationships or no relationships; butches - as a gender option; butches comfortable being butches; butches comfortable being lesbian; butches comfortable being women, butches being comfortable being men.
My Mellow My Man
Look what I found on You Tube. This baby queen is working it out.
There is an interesting commentary at the bottom of the video. The struggle continues. He's really cute. I wish him the freedom and spirit of childhood.